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What I Wish I Knew: “Your writing is not about you”

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2 min readApr 2, 2025

Here on day three of “What I Wish I Knew” week, we’re focusing on writing. Writing about writing is a classic genre on Medium (there are nearly 1 million stories published with the writing tag). As

wrote years ago on Medium in I Wish I Knew These 8 Things When I Started Writing, most advice on writing really just boils down to expressing different preferences. But then he goes and mentions one specific thing he wishes he’d known that is actually more about mindset: Your writing is not about you. He frames writing as about “helping your audience,” which means sitting down with both a specific audience and an idea of how you can help them, before even putting words down.

Looking through dozens of “what I wish I knew when I started writing” stories on Medium, there’s useful advice for those going to journalism school (probably don’t?), self-publishing novels (writing the book is just the beginning), and becoming poets (it’s addictive). But the most useful lessons tend to come down to mindset shifts like Jim’s, or super specific lessons, two of which I really wish I’d known when I started out as a writer: First, this gem from an open thread from a few years back on what wisdom writers would share with their younger selves, “Everyone’s writing gets better with editing.” And writer

’s list of great writer habits that I wish I’d known way back then, which includes one of the best pieces of advice on writing I’ve heard: Find a trusted reader.

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