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Memorial Day and forgotten stories

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2 min readMay 26, 2025

Some histories of Memorial Day in the U.S. are rooted in an 1868 proclamation, but the annual holiday can be traced back even further to 1865, when a crowd of 10,000 (most of whom were formerly enslaved Black citizens) gathered in Charleston, South Carolina, to honor fallen Union soldiers who fought for their freedom.

“America’s first memorial day became a celebration of Black liberty and patriotism, but racism blocked an opportunity for the nation to commemorate,” writes

. She goes on to describe the totality of this narrative erasure from history — the cemetery where that first gathering took place is no longer there, replaced by a park honoring a Confederate general.

Another oft-forgotten story from U.S. military history: Did you know some families in other countries choose to adopt the graves of U.S. soldiers who died on international soil? Filmmaker

interviewed a Dutch family who did just that for a 23-year-old WWII soldier from Michigan who died in a German village, just six months before victory was declared in Europe.

The practice of adopting these graves lets families on both sides put aside nationalism to honor their unified fight against hatred and oppression. O’Brien remarks: “Both families talked about gratitude, reverence and kindness. They also spoke about love for him, the soldier — and his sacrifice — and for each other. We didn’t talk about war or the bloody WW2 endgame that played out just a few miles away. Love and kindness ruled.”

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