Don’t wait until you lose everything to appreciate what you have

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Issue #242: wildfire policy, vibe curators, and optimizing for understanding

I’m writing this one day before you’ll receive it (Wednesday morning), and I just woke up to photos and videos of the Pacific Palisades fire — one of three fires burning in and around Los Angeles. At least 30,000 people were forced to evacuate so far. More than 1,000 homes and businesses were destroyed. Footage of the Santa Monica beach, featuring a few brave souls walking in the foreground, look unreal to me. But they’re real.

A friend just texted me a photo of the sky above their Silver Lake home: It’s eerily gray though the photo was taken at 8 a.m. “We’re writing a newsletter about this,” I text back. She’s safely working from home and part of a group chat with native Angelinos. They’re chronicling restaurants and schools lost to the fire. At least one of her friends’ homes burned down. “Find something about losing everything,” she replies.

33 years ago, during the Oakland Firestorm of 1991, Roger Magoulas’ house burned down. He decided to rebuild instead of move. After decades spent processing that loss and the rebuilding effort, he took to Medium to explain how it changed him and what he’d recommend to those in a similar position. Above all, he advises patience: The impulse to start over ASAP is so strong, but the decisions you make have a “long shadow.” “You will make mistakes, that’s inevitable, your goal is to avoid silly missteps.”

And here’s a story by Skylar Whitney, who evacuated Jasper, Alberta, along with 25,000 others last August after two wildfires erupted in a national park. It became one of the most expensive natural disasters in Canada’s history, and the rebuilding process will take years. Whitney takes the long view: “This is the worst fire Jasper has seen in 100 years. But the regrowth that comes from it will be absolutely beautiful. […] if this has made me realize anything, it’s that Jasper is my home, and I’m not going to abandon it.”

If you’re in LA, be safe.

Harris Sockel

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